hmmm...tough question about the kids. Are you willing to give up that time with them? In my opinion, this shouldn't be about you or him, it should be about the kids and what is in there best interest. Maybe have them bring the kids to you instead of watching them at his place. Not sure what the answer is, what feels right?


Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since