I agree with the others, T. She isn't done. She won't be for a long time most likely. But she isn't done with her own journey. Not much more to it than that, ya know?
The note indicates she knows that she is deciding (that's important) to walk away from a great guy. It is totally a reflection on her. You need to know that, T.
You also need to figure out if you're going to stand or not, my friend. In the scheme of things, this is just one data point.
I asked the question for the reason Mach mentioned - didn't want you to go through it in the heat of things. And to be sure you had a chance to clarify your feelings and thoughts before you were in a position to react. It was a good exercise and it's still valid if you choose to make it so.
I'm not saying you haven't been through He** and back. You have. But take the time to reflect on what you want and what you have learned.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
