I got good advice from a former WAS...and ive read here on the success stories...once they truly taste what being independent is, that's when things change. I would say tell him that although you love your kids dearly, that you cant be watching them during his time, tell him you have a life to live. and yes he needs to get his own car, he is a dad he must adjust to the situation he created and stop cake eating...hopefully a vet will chime in..im just a newbie....
Me: 42 W: 39 D: 2 age 6 and 9 D-Day: Dec 29 13 Seperated: 3/20/14 Mediation retainer : 5/20/14 She filed: 06/25/14