I have a couple of questions about the kids in the doing 180 situation, my H and I share 50/50 time with our boys and as he works full time and I only work part time, on days when the boys aren't at daycare and he is working, I've been having the boys at his place, to save money and it also gives me extra time with them, since I'm attempting 180s do I now tell him that when he has them and he's working he has to find someone else to watch them? Also we share out car as his work car doesn't fit the boys in, should he be getting his own car? I'm going on the fact that he said I have to let him go, so is it fair to keep ding all these things for him, do I now let him do everything completely on his own, because that what it would seem to me, if you truly want your independence, then he shouldn't rely on me at all, sorry a bit long winded lol