Dealing with an ongoing affair

[PeterV2]

She came by the house today to cook some meals for me. She lay down on the couch later and invited me to sit by her. She said she feels bad that she disappointed me. I asked her what she meant by that, if it had to do with what happened (i.e. the A) but she said no. She said she meant that I was disappointed that she hasn't been meeting my needs. Then she let on some errands.
Now I'm wondering if she's planning something such that my needs won't ever get met. Driving myself crazy with mind reading. Got to stop that.
I'll ask her for more clarification when she gets back from her errands.
Time to discuss each of our needs and how we can fulfill them.
She needs to get away - take a break. I agree. But she doesn't want to take a break with me. She wants to go with her D but her D can't really go. Maybe I could suggest someone else.
Last thing I want is for her to meet up with OM while away. She says it's over but has yet to open up her phone to me.