I'm going to give you my honest opinion. No, you aren't silly for hoping your h wants to reconcile and if I had a dollar for every time someone told me h would be sorry, I would be a remarkably wealthy woman. We have friends who thought my h had it made. He didn't. To peeps on the outside, it just seems ludicrous but.....,,.
The reality is this- no one knows. Is it possible your h and the 19 yr old break up? Sure. When? 2 months from now or maybe 2 years from now. You can't stop living and neither can your boys. If your h did come back, well IMVHO piecing/reconciling looks more difficult than post BD. That's just my opinion though.
No one knows if your h or anyone else's WAS will regret their decision. Some people can't self reflect because that's like admitting they could be part of the issue. And they are:-). Who knows when or if your h can ever face that? For some people it's easier to *run* and not deal with the situation. However, you aren't wrong or crazy for having hope. I suggest living your life and plan on your h not returning. I don't say that to be harsh, just realistic.
Last edited by Georgiabelle; 06/26/1408:44 PM.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
