Cat04, although he may not have been abused or neglected as a child, he has always suppressed himself. He has always deferred to everyone, including his younger brother, when it comes to making decisions. Down to which route to take when driving, or what time to be somewhere. He has never taken charge of anything. He has mentioned in the past and again in recent months how his family doesn't take him seriously and they don't respect what he says and how much it would frustrate him... yet he didn't break out of that. He would say how his father never respects his decision making int he family business and it would drive him nuts. That's the thing I think he never was heard and so now this is his way of taking control.
And yes, I'm aware that MLC is an undiagnosable condition that the medical field does not recognize.
Me: 35, H: 36, M: 6, S: 1, D: 3, BD: 4/21/14 H still living at home