- If you are still trying to reconcile, and are asking for transparency from HER, I would not delete them or do anything that lessens my OWN transparency.
- However, if you are in an active legal situation (when you say "go forward" with divorce . . . has she filed yet?) or maybe even if I had a looming "GOING to file" legal gun to my head . . . I wouldn't be showing my adversary ANYTHING that has to do with my stuff.
There's a reason that they put that little "v" between the names of the parties.
