yesterday right after she filed she texted me random texts of which she already knew the answers to..one of them was odd, went like this:

w- were you at the house today? I came home and the back door was open.

m- yes I went by to get some clothes for the girls and the maid was there.

w- oh ok, I was not aware that the made switched her day and was here.

m- you didn't notice the house was clean?

w- yes I did notice

so I ended the texting right there, ever since I left the house has been a wreck...now im going back to being indifferent and minimum contact, only about the girls.


Me: 42
W: 39
D: 2 age 6 and 9
D-Day: Dec 29 13
Seperated: 3/20/14
Mediation retainer : 5/20/14
She filed: 06/25/14