Figure out what it is in your life that you want to improve on. Go back to when you and your H first fell in love. Who were you back then compared to now? If you are like many of us, M life has distracted you from your past interactions with your H.
Focus on what you know you contributed to the decline in your M and work on those issues for starters. The rest you can pick up on the way.
Good luck!
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16