He goes out every night then comes home and drinks and cries for an hour or 2 before coming up to bed
Sounds like he's also a depressed alcoholic?
Yes, he's definitely depressed and now turned into an alcoholic (I think) too. leading up to BD he was constantly drinking but since April, other than the first 2 nights after his nose job, he has drank every night. And even the day he came home from surgery he asked me, "do you think I could have a glass of wine?". I obviously knew he couldn't but didn't want to be controlling or bossy so I defered to google. I said let's see what they say about alcohol after surgery. And of course he got his answer.
Me: 35, H: 36, M: 6, S: 1, D: 3, BD: 4/21/14 H still living at home
