So H comes back tonight from traveling. I'm a little nervous as it has been so nice to have peace for a little bit. ( funny, it's only been 4 days since he left but after the roller coaster of a vacation we had last week it feels like much more time).
My PMA has been awesome these last few days- hoping I can keep it up!
I only contacted him briefly by text regarding some financial/tax issues we are working on. Otherwise I let him initiate anything. He texted a few times to have a good day or have a good night. I waited a little but to respond but did send back short and sweet texts.
Still have to figure out balance as I was the distancer most of the time in our relationship ( can you tell I've been reading Solo Partner?!).
This weekend kids have karate tournament and I have plans for friend to come hang out at the pool.
Praying for continued peace and loving detachment for myself and all of you in DB land!


Me 41 H 40
M 20 T 23
S 19,16, 8 D 13
BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work
BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D
Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015
Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown