went to old house to pick up keys, he was at hospital for surgery & told me to go there. I saw our BBQ sitting outside. This is normal for most of you...but not us. I was the BBQ'er. Last summer the BBQ stayed inside the garage all summer. Its too much bother for him to BBQ.
The day that we discussed exclusive dating & hanging out... it was mentioned by him about casually wanting me to be hanging out by the poolside this summer... I then offered that if he got some propane, that I would make a meal (as he hasn't eaten a decent meal in a while)... He wasn't too sure about the idea, as it meant dragging it out & cleaning it up. I didnt insist, He said he would let me know...THAT WAS THEN, 2-3 weeks ago convo. Never mentioning or thinking of it again.
I just find it odd that its outside now.
I will try not to read anything into it.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
