Don't be too hard on yourself T-boned. You responded and that's ok. I still respond every time, I just wait awhile and that's what you did. Haven't heard from my ex in a few weeks and I'm definitely ok with that now. I don't expect to either. Treat him like a coworker/neighbor next time he does one of those touch n' go's. This trip thing is a great opportunity for you to detach and do more GAL activities and really start finding out more about yourself. I listed what I wanted out of the rest of my life. I listed my interests that were my OWN and not shared. Gave me great direction. Also worked on myself by listing my good attributes (it was a homework assignment from that group I was in) and that bumps up your self worth and confidence. It worked. After such a rejection it takes time to get back your mojo There will be good days and bad, after the divorce is final you may find some relief. You can only find inner peace within yourself. Take care - thinkin' about ya!
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
There will be good days and bad, after the divorce is final you may find some relief. You can only find inner peace within yourself. Take care - thinkin' about ya!
