"Man The F*** Up" The Ultimate 180

[RedHawk98]

Apologies 25. I've just seen your second post re:Response of WAW.

It certainly makes for humbling reading.
I know my wife felt terribly lonely and disappointed for a period of time.
How long that period of time was, I can't be sure.
We were always both very happy with each other. But not our circumstances.

This is the part that has kept me awake at night. Working out what is real from "WAW script/Affair Fog" (If you believe in such a thing at all? I'm interested in your opinion on that.)
I agree with around 50% of my wife's criticisms. They were totally valid! I addressed them as fast as I could under the circumstances.

The other 50% is where she will deny absolutely anything positive regarding us. Things said. Plans made.
Complete denial. Will contradict herself constantly. Some bare faced lies too.

Very frustrating. But I can understand she needed to validate her "crush" (as it took her 9 months to confess to, but no more) to some level.
They have been together all along on and off.

I know you can't always apply Logic to Feelings.

I just wish I had the 25/Starsky Tag Team a year ago. Your advice would have made such a difference.