I'm getting sick and tired of feeling sick and tired.
Then change that. DB101, if something isn't working, then change it..
Originally Posted By: Thornton
The pain I've been in is getting boring TBH.
What is the cause of this ?
Hint ?
Click to reveal..
Look in the mirror
Originally Posted By: Thornton
I want my life back. I want to feel worthy of being loved again. I can't believe how much power I've given away to WAW.
Then take it back...for YOU
It has nothing to do with you being "worthy" of being loved. It isn't about having another person always validating your "worthiness". It IS about you self-validating, and knowing that you are CAPABLE of loving, and SHOWING that, REGARDLESS if you are receiving it.
It isn't Tit-fot-Tat here. You will learn that giving your love is about your choices, and not just what you can get in return for giving it. THAT is what un-conditional (or almost unconditional) love is about. Loving another person when they often do not give it back.
Example...
Do you love your Daughter ??
Is it because of the things that she does, or gives to you ??
Or is it because of the things that you do, and give to her ??
Originally Posted By: Thornton
Not to be cocky but I'm an attractive, fit, intelligent guy. With a good job, good credit score, and good family. I value my relationships and I'm fiercely loyal. I deserve to be happy. I deserve someone who's willing to walk through fire and brimstone with me and face life's challenges.
Hmmm....
You sound, wonderfully....convenient there.
Good job, good credit score, faithful....
And I'm not knocking you,
yet...
Would that be your best pick up line in the future ???
And Spartan knows how I feel about the word "deserve"...
We deserve what we have earned, and worked toward. Nothing in life should be handed to us, and while I understand what you meant ???
I just don't think that we can just automatically "deserve" anything.....
Originally Posted By: Thornton
I have so much to be thankful for but I've failed to realize it.
I'm thankful for:
* My faith * My family * My job * My health * My caring nature * My dedication
I will survive this. I will become stronger. I will be happy again. And I will learn from my mistakes.
Now we are getting somewhere, and you have things that you recognize about yourself that you can show externally..
