Oh as a side note, this morning when she did slip into OM territory I told her I did not want to hear it, it was disrespectful to us and our marriage for me to even hear the problems you are having with OM.
A step in the right direction.
Keep up that boundary, she will test you some more and not believe that your changes are real.
Yep. Be ready for it, Ox. "I told you before, I won't listen to this. Please stop bringing it up -- period."
