Dawgy, detaching is hard, like any good marathon, you get 1 hour in and you're thinking "f--k am I there yet?" Please go back and read this thread, you have great advice and I think it will help you greatly. I'd high recommend that next time if you feel emotional and have the urge to kiss/grab/touch your wife that you go for a 20 minute walk outside.

You can not "win" your wife back. Not this month, not this week. You can change you, not her. There is no time limit for her to change and she may never.

Let her miss you. Give her space. Please do this.


"Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing, and work hard. The right people - the ones who really belong in your life - will come to you. And stay." ~ Will Smith