First of all, I want you to know that it is great that you broke things off with XBF. My point was that you went from XH who was abusive to you and then with this XBF who was also abusive. Just wanted to gently nudge you in seeing those patterns. I am not saying it is your fault. Something for you to be more aware of and mindful of as people tend to attract the same things over and over until the lesson is learned and/or understood. When the lesson is learned, the issue stops or goes away.
