I just joined also, and I am the one considering divorce; my husband does not know that I am at this point. We had considered divorce about 14 years ago... the reasons I chose not to pursue it was because, I do love my husband, and our kids were still young. Now they are grown, and I'm back at square one with the whole thing. I don't want to end my marriage, but I don't want to be in this situation anymore, which is why I came here. To help me figure things out. I hope that we both are able to find the answers we need. I have not purchased the 5 Love Languages yet, but it has been recommended to me by several people, so it is next on my list. I wish you luck.
M - 48, H - 50 M - 30, T - 33.5 D - 27, D - 26 S - 30