"Even if or when they are hiding something, figure out if you are playing a role in that...over reacting to things that can incentive someone to deceive."
This is so right on target. I know not to focus on WAW or OM, but from the "last" conversation a couple of days ago, this was her reasoning to me for being more forthcoming with me then OM.
She felt I was stronger than him and less likely to fly off the handle when she is open and honest.
I know that he goes Ape-sh33t on almost every other conversation they have.
She said he is wearing her down.
As for me I have been just biting my tongue and stfu
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965