Wisdom from Job (as usual). Magic, one thing you need to remember is that detaching and DBing doesn't mean you can't be kind or thoughtful. However , you must not attach any expectation/hopes/dreams to those actions.
Please for your sanity and the fact that we go around 1 time on this planet (at least in this format), stop wondering what xbf thinks of what you say and do. You will literally give yourself a headache. He will think what he thinks.
You have a wonderful daughter and it sounds like you have many friends. Enjoy time with them. You don't have to answer this but right now, what is so great about xbf? Not what was-right now. Think about that.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer