This link will give you the first page of the thread.^^^
I highly recommend Jim Conway, Gail Sheehy, and Jim Diamond.
The Jim Diamond books I found as a MALE to be very informative about MYSELF! As a woman, well you see what men are going through.
Also Solo Partner by Phil Deluca - this book is very hard to find, so googling it may give you some book reviews that have been written, really you only need to read chapter 8 about pursuit and distance. And Job's thread in the resources is quite good also.
Finally I Don't Want To Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression by Terrence Real Unmasking Male Depression by Archibald Hart These two are really good also!
Also one more thread that I know of that was in newcomers years ago Linked below.
