That's why I was keen to dive in there Ox. You were making a lot of the same mistakes I was, and wanted to prevent you making them too.
I had a lot of bad advice and was going through a very bad time when my wife left. I have to admire your PMA there Ox! I can't see her wanting to talk to me for a very long time. Due to me losing it like I did last week.
But, at least I'm calm and not lashing out in pain anymore. Which will prevent any more damage being done.
When her affair was just EA, I got into what she called circle talk. So when I caught her in a no-tell motel in February where she claims she was just kissing and " petting" she just did not want to deal with my big mouth.
Plus OM had her so scared she would come home and I would harm her.
The worst part was when I would travel for business during the two months,she would stay at the house for S15. She would make me prove I was not home.
I heard VM from him where he would tell her I was probably hiding in the woods.
It was unbelievable.
I honestly think the only thing now preventing her from dropping him are these stupid exposures that people did on the web...
