Lundy Bancroft 'Why does he do that' all about emotional abuse.
Almost anything that Frank Pittman has written - not about MLC per se, but seeing adultery as abuse. Really helpful. People have come to think adultery is 'normal' a sort of boys will be boys (or girls). If they equated it to hitting someone instead it would be clearer how abusive and just plain disrespectful it really is. Hurtful for everyone. Relationships started in adultery very rarely work out either, so who gains?
