What's your point Wonka?

That I don't value myself at all?

I think that's what my point was in my post. I have grown so much through my divorce from my XH, and learned to VALUE MYSELF that I now know when to walk away! At one point in time I never would've known what to do.

Im proud of myself.

M=42 XH=44
M=18 T=21
D14 D11
Divorced 4/2012
XH marries OW 6/2014.