That's why I was keen to dive in there Ox. You were making a lot of the same mistakes I was, and wanted to prevent you making them too.
I had a lot of bad advice and was going through a very bad time when my wife left. I have to admire your PMA there Ox! I can't see her wanting to talk to me for a very long time. Due to me losing it like I did last week.
But, at least I'm calm and not lashing out in pain anymore. Which will prevent any more damage being done.
Suspected EA: Feb 2013 Bomb drop: Mid March 2013 Separation: Mid April 2013 (I fought for marriage) Filed for Divorce: April 2014 Accidental Exposure of affair: June 2014