Originally Posted By: Thornton


Not to be cocky but I'm an attractive, fit, intelligent guy. With a good job, good credit score, and good family. I value my relationships and I'm fiercely loyal. I deserve to be happy. I deserve someone who's willing to walk through fire and brimstone with me and face life's challenges.


Find a rebound girl! Hah, Ill get blasted for that one as I was scolded for my penchant for doing just that. It is wrong on so many levels, but it does rebuild your self esteem in a hurry after a break up smile

Seriously though. I know exactly what you are going through. When my W gave me the BD speech, I was in a relatively new town and had no close friends. She was going out 4 nights a week and had a super active social life. And I am normally the social one between the two of us. So it does amplify the loneliness feeling something fierce. Moving back to my hometown I grew up in where I have countless friends was a Godsend for my sanity and really helped with my PMA/GAL/NC

Chin up buddy. The calm is coming soon for you...


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16