Thanks Ben! I'm really not sure what the 2 issues are. I'm assuming from previous relationship talks that he needs more affection. And the other is a guess but he says he was not prepared to have baby #3. He says he felt like he should have had more of a say. But baby #3 was a suprise. He knew I wasn't on bc. I was assuming we were both kind of ambivalent about it. "If it happens, it happens" We definitely have communication issues.
He's also said in conversations that "he feels its almost like he needs to teach me a lesson." And I just didnt know how good I had it.
Should I still try to sign these papers so we have some consistency? Because right now it's very much - he will be here unless something better is going on. I can't make plans for myself to GAL. Because of the kid issues. He always waits until last minute to say when he will be here.
By the way- he works 3 hours away during the week living a bachelor lifestyle all week. He will not quit his job. And doesn't want our family to be down there either. I'm not sure if he will just decide to be dad & husband full time one day.
H:40 Me:35 D5 S4 S3 months Married 8 years Together 17 years BD: 5/23/2014
