No you did well. You caught her offguard and you stated your position. You werent mean or cold about it. You just simply told her how you feel about it like an adult who is in control of themselves. She hasnt made up her mind about anything. I do agree that she needs to be happy with herself to be in the right frame of mind to make the right decision here. If she is with OM then I cant imagine her being happy with herself. Everyone has a bit of guilt about things like that even if they are planning on leaving. That is some great friend she has there too...See it has been my experience that those kinds of things work in your favor eventually. Its like when your mom doesnt want you to date someone. She tells you that they are trash or that she doesnt like them, whatever. You end up defending the fact that you are dating them by coming up with all of the things that are good about them. So let the OM tell her that kind of crap. It wont work in his favor in the end. Good job in stating your position here with dignity. It will give her something to think about no matter what she said after.
M:33 W:30 T:10 M:2 B/D: 5/27/14 S: 5/28/14 Wife moved back in 7/18/14
