Hey man, like GoatGal said, don't beat yourself up about it. I'm sure we all slip up here and there. I had my heart on my sleeve a little too much today myself. But delf-flagellation just leads to a downward spiral. Overall it seems like you're doing well focusing on you. And it seems like you're able to check yourself and rededicate yourself to the work at hand. You're dealing with big stuff... Hard stuff. So major props to you for rising to the challenge.


H: 43
W: 37
M: 11 years
T: 12 years
S: 11
D: 8
ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14
MC started: 9/22/14
Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14
Piecing: 10/20/14