It doesnt have to be a roadblock when you let her know you dont want a D. Just tell her "I understand that you feel that D is the best option here, just know that isnt what I want." You can leave it at that. Its nice and simple and should not provoke an argument. Either way, when it starts getting heated it is up to you to defuse the situation. Stay calm and dont raise your voice. Dont argue with her, just acknowledge what she is saying. It becomes very hard to continue yelling at someone that isnt yelling back.
M:33 W:30 T:10 M:2 B/D: 5/27/14 S: 5/28/14 Wife moved back in 7/18/14
