I just bought The SSW, and I already have DB from before when we were in trouble. Someone else recently recommended The Five Love Languages so I guess it is a good one to take a look at. Whenever I'm feeling off, I always run for a book... hence the name.
I am wanting to fix things, but this time around I'm not sure how to do it. It sure would make it easier to fix things if H communicated with me; he shuts down which feels very passive aggressive to me. I just don't know where to start. I understand the whole GAL business, but the way my life is, everyday is about trying to GAL again. I really hope to find my footing and starting point here. I've been reading as many of the threads as I can.
M - 48, H - 50 M - 30, T - 33.5 D - 27, D - 26 S - 30