What's done is done, you did what you did based on what you knew at the time and the skills you had. Now you know better.
I think we can all say that had we known our spouses had their mental bags packed back before we were privy to their vacation plans, we'd all have been on our best behavior.
Sure, take responsibility for your actions, but SHE is the one who is throwing in the towel. No need for you to bend over backwards apologizing for not being perfect. (Like you're going to be from here on out, right? Well, mostly )
And really, you don't know that if you had done this, that, or the other thing, you wouldn't be in exactly this same spot.
So go enjoy an overpriced cappuccino and let it go for awhile.
And try to avoid any talk about it with your friends, if you tend to do that. Practicing your PMA with them--and everybody-- is good for you too.
Spread those "feel good vibes" around a little--- to go with the caffeine buzz!
---GG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?
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