New here - frozen in should I stay or should I go?

[Cadet]

Welcome to the board

First of all love is a choice.

SO I ask you when you said those marriage vows what did they mean?

Have you read DB or DR?

You realize this is a marriage saving site so I am assuming that you dont want to hurt your children permanently?
Divorce IMHO will do that, I guarantee that.
Your husband seems like he is in the begging and pleading stage, he sounds like he is willing to make changes to win you back?

My suggestion is to start learning what YOU need to change,
without getting divorced?
While still living within your marriage,
you can do it I am sure.

Keep posting and learning.
You are on moderation right now so stick to this thread until you get off of it.

Knowledge is Power.