Dawgy; Here's a heads-up. She will at times spew forth all sorts of hurtful lies, rewrite your past and say things that make you want to argue or reason with her. What you need is a thick spew jacket (mental image) to withstand this spewing. It'll be extremely difficult not to react. That's where the zen-like self-control is required. Just let these things slide off you like water off a duck. Practise phrases like, "I can see how you might feel that way", or "Wow, that must be very difficult" but don't start reasoning with her. She will not respond well to logic or reason - seriously!
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014
