My H's MLC

[Ssarah]

One thing I wonder about constantly is why he is all of a sudden so absolutely uncomfortable around us (me and the kids). He literally can't go for more than an hour or two in the house. He comes from work most nights, hangs for an hour or so with the kids and then bolts, going to friends or usually OW, then comes home around 2am, drinks until 3am or so and then comes up to bed, just to do the exact same thing all over again. On the weekends he'll have breakfast with us and then maybe hang until 2pm or so or sometimes leave earlier. If we're out at a function he is okay, it's just when he's at home.. he is visibly uncomfortable after an hour or so. He has said to me in the past few weeks that he feels caged in, that he can't spend every weekend home with us. His hands shake, he's antsy, anxious, and if he's there long enough, snappy with the kids and then bolts. Is this guilt? Is this a normal symptom of MLC? What is going on? Will this ever go away? I think that's why he's pushing for the divorce so badly. Because he's physically so uncomfortable around us all of a sudden.