What I was looking for was a sign, a signal, a spark of encouragement. She's a huge FB junkie and I wanted to get a feel for what she is thinking. We've texted 3x in 2 months. All of it was superficial, poker face texting.
Uhmmm...
Isn't texting a sign ??
Wasn't it you, that was here a few short weeks ago, bitching wondering IF she would ever contact you again ???
Originally Posted By: Thornton
I know being strung along is MY choice. That I'm allowing her the power to do that to me. I just struggle with taking back my power. Sometimes I feel confident and other times, I feel completly abandoned by her. I stuck by her through so much sh!t. I know she doesnt owe me anything, because I chose to stick by her. It hurts like hell, none-the-less.
Tell me again how that ^^^ is attractive to a Woman ???
Did you stick by her, for her ??
Or because you CHOSE to ???
Yes, it hurts. Yet it hurts worse when you allow yourself to slip into "stinkin thinkin" mode....
When you start stinkin thinkin, you allow yourself to only see the negative things in your life. And you start to EXPECT something negative to happen to you....
Change your perspective, and your thought patterns will follow...
Name 5 positive things that have happened lately ???
