Four months is nothing. If YOU are not set on divorce right now, don't even plant that seed. No divorce talk! No major decisions should be made right now while emotions run high.
Let him go... Not in your heart, but in your mind and in your day-to-day actions.
He's going whether you like it or not.
The only thing that will influence the dynamics here is how you conduct yourself while this is going on.
The rules, the books, take them to heart, live by them.
You are going to be OK although it doesn't seem like that now.
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Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?
