read my signature block...see how long my m took to reconcile?
if a few months of trouble is too much for you, maybe you are not meant to be married at all. If you're really suicidal, CALL FOR HELP...
Otherwise, you need a much longer viewpoint. Marriage is supposed to be for life, but for that to be true, we have to stop being defeated by a few MONTHS of pain.
This process is a marathon, Not a sprint.
You need to strengthen yourself as a man & as a partner. Get some discipline. What would that look like?
Begin by using the advice you are getting. Without that step, which only you can take, you're just surrendering to problems.
Thats not appealing or attractive (esp at your young age), & more importantly, it'll keep You from being a happier person.
Do the work, & stop whining. There is no shame in getting help for this. Do you have a counselor? If not, please get one asap.
Most of us did. I sure did.
Keep on keeping on
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
