Meh, you'll never get ahead of yourself as much as I do. I had the candles burning in the master BR last night awaiting W's return...
I think there's a place for the "just wing it" attitude you mentioned... especially once you're as far into this as you are, and have put forth as much effort as you have. Sometimes, we tend to overthink this stuff and make it a whole lot harder than it needs to be. You know who you are and what you want/need. Be comfortable in that and just be yourself. It makes it a whole lot easier on us, I think. And since this takes sooooo long... it's important we don't burn ourselves out.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
