Thank you both of and lost 18, I have read the first chapter of Dr, I'm waiting for my copies to arrive, may take another week. I have been doing some 180s unconsciously I think, working on my own issues. It'll be 4 months on the fourth of July, since all this started, and somewhere early in the peace he agreed to at least 6 months trial separation, what happened to that? sorry this is dis jointed, I've had no sleep and I'm feeling exhausted, I actually feel like I did 4 months ago when the original b was d, like I'm back at square one, does this often happen? He says he tried to change the way he feels but it didn't work, he's just done, anyone heard this and seen it turn around??