I see where you're coming from.

However, I think I didn't clarify, she currently lives 5 hours away in her hometown. I did tell her that she needs to get moved over to her parents cell phone bill, that I couldn't afford to pay for it anymore, but told her that I would wait until she gets a job. Which apparently should be happening this or next week.

I have tried to tell her that I wasn't comfortable with the kids being around the OM but she doesn't care. She doesn't care about my core beliefs at all. I guess I need to clarify more, she is living with the OM and so are my kids every other week.


Me-33,W-26
M-4 yrs, T-5 years
S- 2 D- 4 (Special needs, undiagnosed)
Apr 2014 B date
End of April 2014 Moved in with parent's