Speech was the wrong word I guess. I meant speaking your mind on those core beliefs. Regardless of outcome.

I was advised against that doing that in the beginning. The worst piece of crap advice I ever received.

Suspected EA: Feb 2013
Bomb drop: Mid March 2013
Separation: Mid April 2013
(I fought for marriage)
Filed for Divorce: April 2014
Accidental Exposure of affair: June 2014