Cadet, thank you for your post. I saw your recommendations on other's threads and have tried to read alot of those posts already. I'm only at this for 2 months, so I know the road ahead is long and tough. Despite all of the advise I just don't know how everyone sticks to it. I will try my hardest to stay on track, detach, detach, detach.
Me: 35, H: 36, M: 6, S: 1, D: 3, BD: 4/21/14 H still living at home