Matt165, that's exactly it. He only confides in the OW now since no one else agrees with what he's doing. To her, she has nothing to lose and everything to gain by pushing him into a D. My husband is established and she comes from nothing with alot of debt, liens and judgments. And that's the thing, he never would have noticed her in a room before his MLC. I just find it ironic that these worthless human beings come along at just the perfect time. She couldn't have timed it better if she wanted to. My son was 6 months and my daughter 2 when they met. I was all consumed with the kids not noticing what was happening. My H too stopped being a H and father when he started his "journey". Despite him still being home I've become a single parent since.
Me: 35, H: 36, M: 6, S: 1, D: 3, BD: 4/21/14 H still living at home
