Sex was great, part 2

[GoatGal]

Grey,

You are stuck in the same loop, going around and around.
You've been there for weeks now.

You've got to get your focus on something else---ANYTHING ELSE--right now.

Go do some art, catch a lobster. Anything.

Please stop OBSESSING over your wife and your sex life.
Really, that's all you're doing and how much is it helping you?

It's time to help yourself. That's all you can do.
You can't help her, fix her, or change her.

It's not an "all or nothing" situation.

Seriously.
Follow up on what I said and please take a break.

I feel for you, but this is not healthy for you or for her.

I don't want to read another word here until you take a break, get some clarity, see your therapist... then I'd like to hear all about it.

But not until then, OK?

--GG