Ssarah,

It's a fine line to walk about how to handle them in an active affair.

I'll leave it to the vets to give you better guidance on that.
All I can say is that finding out what you can live with, and what you can't, is an important first step.

He may be "all about him" but you need to be "all about Ssarah."

--GG

Me 54 Him 63
M 23 T 29
0 Kids
Funny Farm of Rescues
12/12 OW--
5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied
9/13 Proof OW: ENDED
2/14 Got D papers on my BD
I kicked him out for my sanity
9/14 He wants to "talk"?