My H's MLC

[Ssarah]

Matt165 until I really started learing about MLC I too thought it was only something middle aged me go through, but after learning more, I couldn't beleive how many women act on their impulses and run. Thank you for your support and I'm sorry you're going through this as well. I do have to remind myself that I didn't cause this although it's hard. I sit here thinking if I was softer, more intimate, less demanding, would that have made a difference? It's just hard when you have two small children and very little help from your spouse. But that's the thing, as you said, no one can rationalize or talk any sense into him. He stopped talking to any of his family about our R and only confides in the OW, who I'm sure dishes out the best advice.