Ggrass thanks for the advice. I will definitely look up Wonka's cheat sheet because that's what I need most help with, detaching. It is crazy how this seems to be so scripted. They must give out a manual somewhere. And they're so persistent about it that it definitely makes you stop and say, really was it that bad? In my moments of weakness (like when I wrote my initial post) you start to believe it, but when you have a clearer day you realize that things may not have been perfect but they definitely weren't bad and you were happy. I just wish they would realize glimpses of that too.
Me: 35, H: 36, M: 6, S: 1, D: 3, BD: 4/21/14 H still living at home